– Laughter Club
Man has the power and ability to turn despair into hope, and failure into victory, and tears into laughter, provided that life and its wonders, pleasures, disappointments, struggles, sufferings, and Pains “Yes” and give a positive answer.
If we try to include words like: yes, it is possible, always, I hope, I can, in our dictionary and family members, then we will see the manifestation of happiness. We have the power to possess all the joyful phenomena of life and to create them for ourselves. It is enough to decide to change. If we decide to live with love and immersed in love every moment from today, we will better understand the meaning of life and live happily and we will enjoy it.
What does it mean to live happily?
Man is a happy and hedonistic creature. Having money and property is not a sign of happiness and disobedience and poverty is not a sign of misery.
If so, the rich should be the happiest and the poor the most miserable. While this is not always the case. All the passions, passions and pleasures of the paradise of life await those who reach this paradise with effort, thought and resistance. Paradise is near us, but it is manifested only for those whose hearts are pure and unconscious.
When you feel good about yourself, others look better than ever. The world reflects the reaction of our own behavior. When we hate ourselves, we hate everyone, and when we love who we are, the whole world is lovable to us. Therefore, it is better to have happy and healthy thoughts and consider health as our human and worthy right. Be gentle with ourselves and accept your family. Know that one of the keys to happiness is focusing the mind on the present moment. This moment is the only time we have and from the moment the best thing we can do is “happiness”.
“Most people are almost as happy as they expect,” Abraham Lincoln said. And according to another psychologist: pen, paper and paint are at your disposal. Paint heaven. Then enter it.
Ways to get a sense of happiness in life
A) To live: Let the dust of the past fall from our shoulders. The more we walk in the darkness of the past, the farther we will be from the light and radiance of the future. To sink into the past is to sink into darkness and gloom. “The key to happiness is to focus the mind on the present moment.”
Living in the past and regretting it does not cure pain. We must learn from the past and its failures and build the foundation of success in the present. To have a bright future ahead
B) Forgive: When we refuse to forgive others, it is actually us who suffer. Most of the time, the “culprit” does not know what is going on in our head, while we put ourselves at the center of mental suffering. ام. When we choose to forgive, when we change, others change, when we change our attitude toward others, they begin to change their behavior.
C / 9 Think positive: Positive thinking is constructive and negative thinking is destructive, because positive thinking people think about what they want and then they are necessarily drawn to these goals. Always think about what you want
D) Do not despair and despair: Do not lose hope in the path of life and do not despair. We should never think that the path we have taken is the last path, we should constantly look for other paths because: “The end was the seeker and the finder.”
F) Be honest with ourselves: Not being honest with ourselves is more harmful than not respecting ourselves. Write down the things we have not been honest with ourselves and find the way to be honest by examining our mistakes.
In other words, when faced with unfortunate events, we should try to bring the lost happiness back to our circle of existence by dominating the environment.
Recommendations are needed in this regard
Thinking is different from grieving, grieving does not cure any pain and is of no use. While thinking can find ways to address the concerns.
▪ No problem lasts forever, so take steps to fix or forget the problem.
Grief and depression are contagious. When we look sad, others become depressed and upset. When we are happy, the faces of others become happy as well.
▪ The past is never equal to the future. Although we have faced adversity. We can think that the era of misery is over and happiness begins tomorrow.
The secret to living happily is not doing what we love, it is loving what we do.